Sex toys were a thing since the dawn of civilization. In the past, they were made of stones or wood and had one purpose - pleasure.  We aren't that much different from our ancestors, so if you're looking to purchase a sex toy, here are a few interesting things to remember. A sex toy should feel amazing and should satisfy your needs. But, above all, it should not affect your health in any way. This is why you should consider things such as materials, shape, size, levels of intensity. So, if you're checking sex toys online, be sure to do your research and only purchase them from trusted sellers and brands. Here’s what you should keep in mind.

Narrow Your Choices By Sensation

When choosing your toys, it's important to narrow down your choices by sensation. So, if you're going to get a vibrator, it's important to know if you're looking for internal or external stimulation or both. Then consider the thickness and length, as well as the shape (straight or curvy).

It depends on what you want to feel when using this toy. When you narrow things down, you get to choose from a few options that (probably will) meet all your preferences.

Consider the Material

Before you purchase sex toy, it's essential to consider what it's made of. It doesn't matter if it's a dildo, vibrator, penis ring or a sex flashlight, be sure to always check the materials. There are six basic materials sex toys are made of: glass, wood, metal, jelly, silicone and hard plastic. Each of these has its advantages. Glass, for example, is used for making dildos. It's a non-porous material, easy to clean and recyclable.

Silicone or jelly are softer and give a more natural feel to the sex toy. Silicone is more expensive than materials that consist of dangerous materials. It's durable and easy to clean, two very important features for a sex toy. Wood might not be the most popular material in this age and day, but you may find such options. Metal looks nice, it's clean and isn't porous and what's most important is it can be cleaned easily and will last much longer than any other material. Rubber or PVC isn't the best choice, as they contain phthalates. They might be cheaper but they aren't the healthiest option.

Touch It

If a toy catches your attention, but you're not sure about it, it's ok to pick it up and see how it feels in your hand. Many people might feel shy and uncomfortable doing this, but the people who work in sex shops are not there to judge you. So, feel free to touch the toy and see if the material feels pleasant, soft, hard, weird.

Choose What You Want

Many people often get what's the most hyped toy at the moment. But, as for anything else in life, following trends isn't the smartest option. Just because a toy is currently in the spotlight, it doesn't mean it will work for you. Sex shops offer various things for a different type of stimulation for both men and women. Know why you're there before the seller tries to sell you the most popular thing which might not even not be your thing.

Strength and Intensity Settings

A quality sex toy isn't the cheapest thing. So before you spend your money, be sure what it offers. For instance, you surely don't want to spend too much on a toy that may hurt you. You're not looking for a drill or hammer. It's a toy that should help you relax in your most intimate moments by yourself or with a partner.

Ask the seller (or read in detail, if shopping online) about the strength levels. They can range from soft pulsations to deep and fast rumbling. To choose the right vibe, make sure you know your sensitivity level. How soft or hard do you want your stimulation to be. There's your answer when it comes to intensity settings. The more settings it has, the easier it will be for you to find what works best for you.

Let Your Fantasy Guide You

Many people want to do their research before getting the final product, and that's great. Don't avoid your research. But, sometimes it might be a bigger thrill to allow your fantasy to guide you. If you always wanted to try a certain sex toy, now it's time to purchase it. Don't overthink it, don't fear that you might be judged, and certainly don't think that something is wrong with you.

Baby Steps

If you haven't used sex toys before, it is a good idea to start with beginner's stuff. Sure, you might want to test your limits, but maybe test the waters first with things that aren't so challenging. If you want to introduce a sex toy to your partner, you can start with something that can work great for both of you. Be sure to talk to them first, so you can set grounds on what you both want and need.